Ok so this is how it all started.
One of my best friends (for anonymity sake let's call him - and the other dudes - "Dude") signed up for JDate. Yes he wants to meet that special someone and I don't think is just out to hook up. He goes out with a girl (let's just refer to her - and all others in her situation - from here on out as "Psycho Girl") that he "meets" through JDate.
It all starts out fairly normal, drinks which then evolve to dinner. From what I understand (and I'm a girl so he may have not shared all with me) they make out a bit and then eventually one night they do the deed. This all happens over about a month or so (with Thanksgiving in between which is basically a dead week so we don't count that). After they "take out the trash" (one of Word Is Bond's fun expressions for the sex) the first time, he even takes her out for breakfast!
So the deed is done on a Saturday, breakfast is had on a Sunday and Sunday night "Dude" has a standing football date with his guy friends (of which she is aware and has texted him many many times during games). Sunday night after the breakfast she proceeds to text non stop asking him to come over. He of course doesn't want to as it's only been about a month and he's trying to take it easy and not see her every single day twice a day, and also he has plans to hang out with his friends. So his birthday is that Tuesday and she obsessively stalks him all damn day texting and gchatting happy birthday like 4,000 times. She eventually asks him for plans, he says he's got a crazed week and not exactly sure what's going on (at this point he's getting very turned off to her as she does not leave him alone! GIRLS...b/c he had sex with you does not mean you should talk every single day at every single minute, you are still just dating and getting to know each other.
In any case, the following weekend, he sleeps with her again (dumb dude, very dumb) and because he's one of the nicest kids ever, takes her out to breakfast AGAIN. Sunday night, same thing happens "come over come over, i can't believe you don't come over!" and then the final text: "I guess I'm never seeing you again!"... um, where did that come from?? She texts the next morning saying: "Sorry I guess Drunk me wrote that text"...and then calls again at night after he does not respond to her other two texts b/c he doesn't want to get yelled at for nothing.
The below events transpire after his "radio silence" does not apparently tell her that she should not call... Note to all - if someone doesn't respond after two crazy unnecessary texts and a confrontational phone call... DO NOT GCHAT THEM!!!!!!
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